love and friendship

Noon. Lagi kong iniisip, sobrang ideal siguro kung ang taong mamahalin mo ay kaibigan mo. Xmpre sa lahat ng moments sa life, laging may kontrabida, sabi nila, NO daw. hindi daw un advisable. When I reached college, last year lang toh ngyari, na-getz ko yung point nila. Na, depende pala sa closeness yun. Na, the closer you are, mas lalong NOT RECOMMENDED ung level na kaka-iba. Kasi, ngaung college lang naman ako nagkaroon ng mga buddies na guys. And last year ko lang na experience yung closeness na ganun without malice.

Masarap isipin, and as I've said, IDEAL talaga para sakin ung ganun eh. friends muna before anything else. Pero, mas maganda lng pala un isipin. Ah, ewan! cguro it just really depends kung sino ung tao.

Isang magandang halimbawa. I have a friend, let's call her, friendship A. And we have this other friend, c friendship B. C friendship A, in love kay friendship B. as of this moment, love pa din ni A si B, pero no idea si B. si A, trying to get over her feelings na, to the point that she's using her reason para wag na nya mahalin yung tao, but we all know that its not that simple. That will power and reason are sometimes not enough to get over a person. mahirap kasi, yung nagmamahal ka na feeling mo, parang mali na mahalin sya dahil magkaibigan kau. Kaya, TO FRIENDSHIP A-- friend, you would always love him, hindi mo na mabubura yun. Minahal mo na eh. Don't put yourself in a situation where in you pretend na unti unti ng nawawala where in fact solido pa yang feelings mo. It takes time.